晴時多雲的一天四季

Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it.

So take your time and choose the best.

 

To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE

Love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person."

It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

 

To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE

Never say "I love you" if you don't care.

Never talk about feelings if they aren't there.

Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart.
Never look in the eye when all you do is lie.

The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works both ways...

 

To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED
Love is not about "it's your fault", but "I'm sorry."

Not "where are you", but "I'm right here."

Not "how could you", but "I understand."

Not "I wish you were", but "I'm thankful you are."

 

To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.

 

To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go.

The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.

 

To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand,and get hurt but never keep the pain.

 

To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE

It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.

 

To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone.

It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you.

But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.

 

To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it.

If he isn't worth it now he's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go.....

TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......
My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature,never-changing,plifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.


給我單身的朋友﹕
愛像蝴蝶。你越追牠，牠越躲你。
但若就隨牠自由的飛，牠會在你最意想不到時候飛向你。
愛能讓你幸福，但更常教你傷心。
只有愛對了人，愛才顯得可親。
別急著愛，寧缺勿濫

給我告別單身的朋友﹕
愛不是成為別人的"完美情人"
而是在愛中做最好的自己

給我遊戲人間的朋友﹕
若沒有真的在乎，就別說「我愛你」。
若沒有真的感情，就別說你動心
別吹皺一池春水，只為了你高興
別滿口胡言，還說自己真心
最殘忍則是，讓人愛上你，而你卻只當一場兒戲

給我結了婚的朋友﹕
愛情的世界裡，
不該只有「都你的錯」，也要記得說「 我很抱歉」；
不該只有「你怎麼可以這樣？」，也要記得說「我能理解」；
不該只有「你要是能…」，也要記得說「幸好有你」

給我訂了婚的朋友﹕
衡量你們是不是真適合彼此，
不是看在一起有多久，
而是看在一起有多好

給我情場失意的朋友們
你可以放任情傷停留氾濫
也可以挑戰從中學習，勇敢度過情關

給我對感情躍躍欲試的朋友﹕
該怎麼愛?
用心去愛，但別愛昏了頭;
彼此包容，但別委曲求全
共享生活，可別趁機揩油；
試著理解，停止要求
留著傷口，忘記傷痛

給我佔有慾強的朋友﹕
看到所愛的人和別人在一起很快樂會教你心碎
知道所愛的人和你在一起不快樂才更讓人不堪

給我不敢告白的朋友﹕
當你要與人分手，愛讓你心痛
當別人要與你分手，傷痛更加難以承受
但當你的心上人不懂你為何心痛，愛才真教人憔悴削瘦

給我不懂放手的朋友﹕
教人悔恨一輩子的是，
遇見某一個人，與他相戀
到頭來卻只發現
那從來就不會有結果，
但卻已在那愛錯了的人身上耗費多年
現在的他要是配不上你的愛，
一年後，或十年後的他，仍是不配。
就放手吧

給我所有的朋友﹕
祝福你們，覓得一個他/她，
他/她的愛忠於感情（honest），不輕言放棄（strong），
成熟穩健（mature），沒有貳心（never-changing），
與你學習成長（uplifting），將你捧在手心（protective），
讓你充滿自信（encouraging），豐厚彼此感情（rewarding），
對你無私付出（unselfish）。

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